Husband sent a photo

Naughty1205 · 2017-05-19 19:34:08

Sorry didn't know what to put in the title. I'm a sah Mother at the moment. Have 2 dcs 6 and 15 months. I'm on the go all the time and a bit ott about the house and tidying. I think it stems from me suffering from depression and anxiety and I feel better when the house is tidy and clean. I never show or tell the kids this and from looking around there are toys everywhere, dog hair like tumbleweed, I try my best to keep on top of it, rarely sit down for a cup of tea as can't take eyes off ds who is crawling and chewing plugs etc. Sometimes in the mornings I gather up all dirty bottles, baby dishes and bowls, spoons etc and soak them in sink. I may not get around to washing them immediately as ds is a shite napper and wants up up etc. I just saw a text from dh to his pal with a photo of the bottles etc in the sink saying 'bottles and stuff left in sink, naughty gone to collect dd from school'. I'm really upset. Here I am trying to keep the place as best as I can, I'm not working and have no money, I cannot contribute to anything in the house but I feel like an unpaid skivvy. He is fine with money, I think, I get £90 a week from him into your account. Up to a year ago we split everything 50/50, both put same amount monthly to cover mortgage, bills etc. I feel like he is judging me. I know it bugs him of in leave stuff in the sink but it's not like.he has to wash them, I always do it eventually. I don't know what to think. Maybe I'm reading too much into this. I'm so embarrassed he is taking the piss out of me behind my back. I'm actually surprised. Aibu to be upset or am I being over sensitive? I don't know anymore. Thanks for reading this essay.

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