More of a is DH BU, than AIBU.
My mum cares for our 1yo DS when I'm at work, she said the other day she was thinking of meeting up with an old friend, let's call her Kate, with Kate's DGS of similar age. Iv known Kate since I was born as we lived down same street together and me and her two DDs used to play together etc. I see Kate occasionally still at charity evens that mum organises. So I'm quite confident that I know her.
DH doesn't know her. Hasn't met her. And when my mum mentioned this the other day in front of me and DH I said that sounds lovely will be nice for DS to have a little play friend and lovely that you two can meet up with your DGS together now your both retired, then a conversation followed about how lovely it is you both had children together same street same age and now have DGS together in same town.
DH later approached me and said along the lines of I don't want my DS going with some random woman , why has nobody asked me, I don't feel comfortable with it, I think it's rude your mum organising this.
I was shocked but I did try and reassure him that I knew Kate very well , etc.
It's caused big arguements and he thinks I don't care what he thinks or his opinion on our DS and his whereabouts, and that he doesn't was DS to go.
I'm really upset about this , I think this is an innocent thing to do ? AIBU or is DH?
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Spaplease · 19/05/2017 12:48
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