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AIBU to not work on any projects which include the term "reach out"?

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rightsofwomen · 19/05/2017 11:01

It makes me gag.
No one reached out, there was a discussion, or we approached them or we asked them a questions.

I work in science. I don't reach out to people, I work with them.

It's mainly one colleague who says it.

Just needed to get that off my chest!

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StealthPolarBear · 19/05/2017 11:04

What if your job is selling four tops records?

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StealthPolarBear · 19/05/2017 11:04

But if it isn't yanbu

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SignoraStronza · 19/05/2017 11:05

YANBU. Ditto to 'Moving forwards and misuse of the reflexive pronoun ' .....contact myself or another member of my team and we will arrange a meeting with yourselves.'
Aaargh!!

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KingJoffreysRestingCuntface · 19/05/2017 11:06

The series Sons Of Anarchy was spoilt by the characters constantly 'reaching out' to other people.

Got right on my nerves.

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KustardKat · 19/05/2017 11:06

I hate this too! I think it is an Americanism that has crossed over the pond.

I also hate "myself" when used erroneously.

Also stupid corporate speak like "drill down". I think often people say things like this because they think it make them sound more clever. It doesn't.

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aginghippy · 19/05/2017 11:08

YANBU Is the colleague in question American? It's an Americanism.

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rightsofwomen · 19/05/2017 11:10

She is, but we have many non-native English speakers in our group and so it spreads quickly.

They should all speak the Queen's English like I do, goddammit!

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Ifailed · 19/05/2017 11:13

They are merely reaching out for the low-hanging fruit which they can then run up the flag pole to see if a paradigm shift is achieved.

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aginghippy · 19/05/2017 11:14

I used to work with a man from California. It took me a few weeks to understand that when he said he was 'reaching out' to someone, all he was doing was sending an email.

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Leavesandburies · 19/05/2017 11:16

It depends on whether you need to cascade any information as part of your role.

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rightsofwomen · 19/05/2017 11:18

STOP IT Grin
[lies down in darkened room listening to Radio 4]

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Ifailed · 19/05/2017 11:29

It depends on whether you need to cascade any information as part of your role

True, but sometimes you need to think outside of the box and use out-of-band comms to reach the corporate eco-system if you want to amplify the message.

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BurningViolin · 19/05/2017 11:32

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Pombearsandnaiceham · 19/05/2017 11:35

Oh my god YANBU!! This also drives me mad.

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MillieMoodle · 19/05/2017 11:37

One of our senior partners sent this to everyone in the firm....hopefully the attachment will work!

AIBU to not work on any projects which include the term "reach out"?
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iwouldgoouttonight · 19/05/2017 11:39

YADNBU. This drives me insane. We had a meeting the other day to clarify what our jobs are because we've had a restructure. I was told my job involves blue-sky thinking about the institution's ecosystem. Confused I need to leave don't I?

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AvocadoHand · 19/05/2017 11:39

This really used to piss me off but I've heard it so many times I'm desensitised.

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Rachel0Greep · 19/05/2017 11:45

Are you having a brown bag lunch, OP? Apparently that's another of the cascading, blue sky, low hanging fruit 'things'...

The first time some jumped up yoke told me to reach out to her, I felt a bit sick.

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Jellytussle · 19/05/2017 11:46

Aaargh. I hate this too. If people aren't fucking reaching out to me they're trying to connect with me or keeping me in a loop. Bastards the lot of them.

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RichardSimmons · 19/05/2017 11:53

The "myself" trend is the WORST! I think people think it sounds smarter or more formal but in actuality it makes my ears bleed.

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TiredMumToTwo · 19/05/2017 11:59

One of my team was working to solutionise something the other day whilst another colleague said he needed to socialise the message to other teams!!!!!!!

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Chewbecca · 19/05/2017 12:01

YANBU

Whenever anyone says this in my office (multiple times a day) I always stretch an arm out to literally reach out to the offender.

They all probably think I am bonkers but hey ho.

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Ethylred · 19/05/2017 12:06

But I like low-hanging fruit!

[Reaches out for cluster of grapes.]

Hey do you see what I did there?

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KustardKat · 19/05/2017 12:38

Low hanging fruit makes me think of testicles....

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iwouldgoouttonight · 19/05/2017 12:59

Low hanging fruit makes me think of testicles.. GrinGrinGrin

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