My friend who I have known since school (we are both 30 now) seems to have changed into someone I don’t like and I hate saying that.
She came out of a ten year relationship & 4 months later she moved into a new home with a new boyfriend. He is much younger, not that age is a factor, but it is his first real relationship. This new house is all in her name as well and I warned her that maybe it was too soon and see how things go, but she ignored me and said I was “sensible”. Maybe I can’t my head around it, maybe I am the odd one out but I struggle to cope at how quickly she moved on.
Either way, it's her life but she doesn’t text me as much as she used to, weeks could go by. I get the odd “let’s do coffee” and I agree and then nothing happens because she can’t simply give me a day she’s free. I also get the question text, where i haven't heard from her in weeks but she has a question she cant be bothered to find out herself so texts me. Even her texts are different, she uses words like ‘innit’ and ‘mate’ which is nothing like her! I don’t know it’s just super awkward because I am getting married and she will expect to be my bridesmaid and I hardly hear from her now and she’s just different! I feel bad because we have known each other years but she isnt who she use to be at all.
I also have other best friends who are much closer to me. We have grown up together and closer, not apart.
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Polly1127 · 19/05/2017 09:04
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