I never had a huge amount of success with men, was a late starter with boys (single sex grammar school girl!), was totally outclassed in the flirtation stakes at Uni though had a few flings. Then had a rubbish relationship on/off for ages with someone who pretty much used me as a booty call. Series of one night stands, attempts at internet dating in 30s were all hopeless. At 40 I fulfilled my promise to myself and had a baby via donor IUI. Am totally happy with gorgeous DD, now 5.
I have a professional job and am totally self sufficient. I always swore I would still try and find a partner for me and a Dad for her but life is busy, like many I am constantly juggling work and home, I don't have easy access to guilt free (or unpaid) baby sitting and don't like leaving DD much to pursue my own social life as I have to leave her sometimes for work so have no idea even when I'd see someone if I found a date.
I thought I'd sign up for online dating this week and managed 24 hours before bailing out again. I would be open to meeting someone 'in real life' but that has NEVER ever happened in the last 45 years so wouldn't be holding my breath. Ive been on my own so long friends don't even bother trying to introduce me to single guys. Should I keep trying or just not bother? Worried Im denying DD the chance of a father figure. Thoughts please.
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Mypyjamasarebaggy · 18/05/2017 22:11
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