My son will be starting in year 2 this august. His father asked a couple of months ago if he could take him abroad for a holiday over the summer break.
Not a problem, I'm happy with that, he will enjoy it I'm sure and it's something new and exciting.
Then a couple of weeks ago he messaged me with the dates... the first day is the start of the new term.
At first I didn't really know what the dates of the new school year were but he had said the holiday was booked for the 4th to the 12th of September. But I thought I'd double check seeing as they usually start back the first week of September.
In his defence the dates are not on the school website but he is an intelligent guy and it took me all of 10 minutes to find out. Now I'm not happy about him missing 8 days of school. I gave him all the information he would need in order to get approval from the school.
Fast forward to now and the school have denied the request and obviously there will be a fine that he is apparently happy to pay. I have now been sent a document to sign to confirm I am happy for him to be taken out of the country the the dates set out and honestly I'm not, I'm happy for him to go away with his dad but it's a week of school he will be missing.
I have voiced my concerns to his father and the reaction I got was "it's hardly like he's doing gcse's so why does it matter"
Is that really the attitude to have? Am I the bad guy in this situation if I say no? Do I sign it, do I let him go? Or do I put things in motion that prohibits him from taking him out the country this time around?
Any advice or opinions cause I'm completely torn, I want my son to have a good time with his dad but is the start of the new school year really the time for that to happen?
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September term time holiday, should I say no?
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Verity86 · 16/05/2017 19:47
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