I'm 45 and I have two dcs. I'm very shy and I know I have no confidence. I try to be friendly and thoughtful to other people and I'll always try to help if I can -I've volunteered to accompany someone who I thought was my friend to a hospital appointment for her ds who has some ASD traits. I've been as supportive as I can as my ds also has ASD. Now it seems she's moved on and friendly with others, if they can't make gym or coffee, I'm sort of asked to fill in. I've started to say no. I feel so used. This is a regular pattern for me. I often step in to baby sit for others so they can go out socially. I'm rarely included. But I find it hard to say 'no'. So I'm trying to be more assertive. Maybe I'm a doormat? I'm trying to turn it around but I think I'm going wrong somewhere. I'm lonely.
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Iamthedogsmother · 16/05/2017 16:24
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