I've been unemployed a year now (although I had a good interview last week so fingers crossed).
Some of my friends are sick of hearing me discuss my job hunting problems and have lost contact.
The friends I do have think I'm lucky to be able to stay at home all day looking after my Son.
My parents think it's 'for the best' that I don't work for now as I don't have to go back to work until my Son is 5 (income support).
Apart from my friends who have also suffered unemployment, no one seems to have the remotest idea of what unemployment actually means.
It means poverty and isolation and boredom. It's destroyed my self esteem, my confidence, my identity. I feel so bored I spend each day just trying to get through it and actually look forward to job interviews as it's a reason to get dressed up!
I am sure I got the job I interviewed for as my Manager has sent my a text saying congratulations on the new job and he's the hiring managers best friends. Even if I don't, I have excellent experience and get interviews for everything I apply for in my field. So soon a job will come my way. But for those who aren't as employed it must be even more horrendous.
AIBU to think some people have a complete and utter lack of awareness of the awful impact unemployment leaves on a person. The soul destroying nature of it. No one is lucky to be unemployed.
My Mum was a housewife her whole life and loved it. But that's different she has a partner for emotional and financial support. I do not.
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To be shocked at how many people don't understand how soul destroying being unemployed is
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daisychainnn · 15/05/2017 15:00
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