AIBU to be really peed off that I am in trouble for test driving a car this afternoon that my BF got on Thursday for the weekend.
He told me he had it for the weekend and wanted me to drive it to see how I would feel. We live together so it would be one of two family cars. He has had it since Thursday and has been driving it around. He told me today was my turn. Anyway, he goes out cycling at 7.30am and I leave out at 12.50pm (he's still not back) to pick up a friend and test the car. Being socially adept, I do not feel the need to be checking my mobile phone when in a 1:1 situation as I myself find it incredibly frustrating when others do this. Anyway, at 4.15 friend goes to the loo after we pay the coffee bill and I check my phone to find BF and my DS have sent several texts telling me off for not having the car back as a) they want to drive it and b) it needs to be back at the dealership. I was not told it needed to be back so I phoned BF, to be told off for being 20 miles away and that it needs to go back asap. I said that had I known I would have been back. He then said it wasn't just fault, I should have known, ranted a bit more then cut me off! Tried calling him again, line busy. He phoned me back 2 mins later, again ranting and cut me off again whilst I'm trying to defend myself. I took the car back to the garage who said I could have kept it another day. Got home to another telling off and asked if had I considered he might want it again! I gave him a round of 'f's as I could not believe the way he had acted, the way he had spoken to me and also incredulous at his utter selfishness.
AUBU? I have give the facts exactly as they are. I'm not feeling sorry for myself but I'm still seething. How would you feel?
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Allgonetitsup1 · 13/05/2017 18:55
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