I feel very tired and tearful so not sure if I'm being U...
We have a spirited 4yo and a 7mo baby.
I go out about once a month for a meal once the kids are asleep to a pub a 15 min walk away.
My husband goes out less but when he does it's a 3pm till 1am drinking session on a Saturday normally. He still pulls his weight the next day.
He's arranged to meet friends in a pub for food and watch the football tonight. Pub is in a different town that's not particularly easy to get to by public transport. 20 min drive or two trains / bus and a train. Football starts at 8pm.
This last week has been tough. 7mo hasn't been sleeping and I'm exhausted.
I've asked dh if he'll help me get kids to bed (or at least get 4yo to bed) then head out about 7pm. Ample time to get there for 8pm.
He wants to leave much earlier (5:30ish) to get a table etc. It's always him who arrives early to save a table (read the paper, enjoy a pint in peace, get out of bedtime etc).
I've asked him if one of the boys he is meeting (both single, no kids) can for once be the ones who get there early. He won't ask them.
AIBU for being annoyed about this?
He'll be relaxing in the pub while I'm struggling with a new bedtime routine for two children after a hard week of very little sleep.
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OrangeGiraffeBlackSpots · 12/05/2017 10:31
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