I actually think the answer to this question is no.
But I need impartial answers to see whether I can help my mum see sense and understand her perspective.
I currently live 15 miles from my mum and in the opposite direction 20 miles from my dh and I work.
We are talking about moving the 20 miles to our work place town, a) because it seems daft us both doing the drive every day and b) we get more for our money than where we currently live and c) it's a lovely area, so we will be 35 miles from my mum.
I speak on the phone to my mum most evenings and see her every two-three weeks 3/4 visits we go to her, 1 in 4 she comes to ours.
Well since I mentioned that we were looking at a new house, she has brought it up that she can't believe I'd leave my own mother and move so far away and that she'll never see me. I say I currently do the journey every single day I am more than happy to do the journey every couple of weeks to visit her.
AIBU to think this isn't a big deal?
As back story, she moved 150 miles away from her mum at a similar age to I am now, and I have a sister who lives 275 miles away.
My mum has a husband and lots of friends and is v active so not lonely or difficulty travelling. In fact her sister lives 30 miles beyond where we are looking at moving to and she sees her once a month.
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AIBU?
Is this too far to move from my mum?
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Insomanywords · 12/05/2017 07:18
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