Bil getting married later in the year. Mil is paying for the kilts and DH is an usher so gets a his kilt with the rest of the wedding party. Mil asked me last week if I would like ds in a kilt she will pay for it too. I hadn't thought about getting him a kilt but was delighted with the offer and accepted. So then she said oh that's great he can just get the same one as the wedding party. As he's not in the wedding party this made me uncomfortable I didn't was sil to think I was forcing him in to the wedding party so I said to mil if it's OK with her I'd like to pick him a different one.
So yesterday DH and ds went to get measured for the kilts. There wasn't one picked for ds so DH phoned mil and asked if he should have one here. She said just to get him the same one as the wedding party. So he has now been ordered a kilt with the wedding party as if he is in it and he's not 😳
Would I look like a dafty if I went in myself and changed the style of kilt. I'm going to feel embarrassed on the day when he shows up in the same gear as the wedding party, but at the same time I feel silly changing it. But I think I want to change it.
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mayaknew · 11/05/2017 16:34
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