I know this sounds petty in the grand scheme of things and makes me sound like I'm 15
I'm mid 40's mother is late 70s.
In the last couple of months my mother has gradually started wearing the same clothes as me.
Same style, same colour, in a lot of cases, the exact same item.
It's now expaneded into jewellery. A week ago, she wanted to know where I bought my watch,
now she has the same watch. It's slightly different but is the same make, colour and style as mine. Basically the same watch.
Same with shoes. Admires my shoes. Couple of days later - same shoes. Same colour, same material. Same type of shoe.
Bags. "Oh" I need a bag like that" She now has the same bag in the same colour.
Don't get me started on perfume.
She is due to go the hairdressers soon and I have a horrible feeling she will end up with the same colour and style as me.
I dread going out with her as we are now starting to look really strange. The odd item I can understand (shops are limited where we live) but every bloody thing?
Should I ignore it all and be flattered, or should I gently point out to her that she needs to stoop copying me and wear what she likes and what suits her.
Some of the colors I wear don't even suit her as I am very tanned and she is very pale. When she wears the same colours as me they wash her out.
What's even more bizarre is that I'm not even that stylish.
Should I ignore it all and be flattered, or should I gently point out to her that she needs to get her own style.
It's starting to get a bit annoying. It feels like she's stealing my identity. I'd love to know what's going on in her head
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My Mother has started copying how I dress! Down to the last detail.
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styledilemma · 11/05/2017 10:46
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