I'll give a bit of a back story so that this all makes sense...
So I was just having casual encounters with a guy.. ended up getting pregnant. He kept saying he would be there for me and support me etc... he never turned up to scans or appointments and when I was giving birth he didn't come to the hospital, instead he went out to get drunk !
Since then, he saw her twice in the first week of her life and nothing since. It was all his choice. I tried to get him to see her but he didn't want too. I can't force him so I gave up and we have had no contact for the past 11 months.
I moved on with my life, met someone new. My daughter turned 1 yesterday! It was very lovely. My partners family are amazing and then all love her as if she was "theres".
However, I couldn't help but feel a little bit sad that her biological dad didn't even wish her a happy birthday.. is it unreasonable of me to think maybe he would of just sent a text or whatever?!
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Cmajmp · 30/04/2017 21:21
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