I know this is the generally consensus on baby showers on here but AIBU to think that it's just straight up rude to voice this opinion whilst attending a baby shower where both the hostess and the person the shower is being thrown for are American?
Background info for context:
Me and DSis were both born in USA but have lived in UK for past 15+ years. DSis held baby shower for me yesterday. FWIW, I am completely indifferent to baby showers, would never throw one for myself but have no objection to attending one and DSis is the type to find any excuse to throw a party.
Shower itself was lovely, DSis set up a gazebo in DMs back garden, decorated with balloons and bunting and made a lot of the food herself. About 15 people in total were invited: a few of my close friends and their DCs, DM, DSM, DSSis, MIL and SIL.
Anyway at some point during the day, SIL and DSis were talking to each other and SIL apparently came out with "these things are so tacky and American, I don't get why people throw them when the baby isn't even here", to which DSis was not particularly happy about and told SIL that if that's how she felt she shouldn't have bothered coming. I was not aware of any of this until after the shower had finished and was helping DSis and DM clear up.
This morning DH has received a text from SIL saying that she had an awful time at the shower because she felt bullied by DSis and that she wants me to have a word with DSis and get her to apologise. I honestly don't want to get involved but while I agree DSis probably acted a bit immaturely, SIL was in fact being rude for making the comment in the first place. DH doesn't agree and is adamant I get on the phone with DSis and "sort her out"
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AIBU?
"Baby showers are so tacky and American"
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SuperPissed · 30/04/2017 11:44
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