DP works in sales and there are periods twice a year where over the space of a couple of months he spends most of the week away from home. This time of year is approaching again and over the next five weeks DP will be away for four days, then three, then four, then a couple of overnighters. I'm filled with a sense of dread.
The thing that bothers me most is that when he's away, there's a LOT of socialising - he "has" to take women out for dinner and drinks - very attractive women (yes, to my shame, I've looked them up on LinkedIn and social media). He's admitted that he finds them attractive and would date them if he were single but then backtracks by saying they probably have partners, he has a partner etc.
The thought of him wining and dining these women makes me feel ill, especially since I feel he's lost interest in me sexually (I've tried to talk to him about this without getting very far, and I've tried nice underwear and coming on to him etc. but I feel that things are fizzling out.)
I don't think he'd actually cheat on me, but I'm worried that he might want to, because he seems disinterested in me. Also, because him being away causes arguments, it's probably a relief for him to be away from me and he probably enjoys being with women who don't cause him any problems.
Ugh. I'm feeling really low. I hate being like this
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HateFeelingInsecure · 27/04/2017 17:35
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