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To think people can be very aggressive

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summersloegin Tue 25-Apr-17 19:43:26

I have had people practically scream at me to turn lights on have a cup of tea or eat. Why can people not accept no thank you

user1491572121 Wed 26-Apr-17 14:16:40

What? Who screams this at you? Are you sitting in the dark?

splendide Wed 26-Apr-17 14:18:08

Is this your husband?

ghostyslovesheets Wed 26-Apr-17 14:19:10

Are you sat in a cafe in the dark ?

BodyformForYou Wed 26-Apr-17 14:29:32

More detail OP

user1491572121 Wed 26-Apr-17 14:44:12

Now I'm imagining OP sitting in a cafe and repeatedly turning off the lights....the waiter keeps shouting at her because she won't have a cup of tea.

HomityBabbityPie Wed 26-Apr-17 14:45:58


NavyandWhite Wed 26-Apr-17 15:09:28

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

summersloegin Wed 26-Apr-17 15:23:48

lol well you've made me laugh

Sparklingbrook Wed 26-Apr-17 15:29:45


AmserGwin Wed 26-Apr-17 17:55:29


ButtonBoo Wed 26-Apr-17 17:57:02


IloveBanff Wed 26-Apr-17 17:57:27

What a bizarre thread. The OP came back and still didn't explain! confused

summersloegin Wed 26-Apr-17 18:02:18

Sorry, I misread the tone and believed everyone was just laughing at me (in a nice way.)

I was talking about when in my case I am vegan. People can become quite antagonistic when trying to get you to eat certain foods. And at work I went to fill in paperwork (my work is primarily based in people's homes) and people shout PUT THE LIGHT ON even though I don't need to, I can see confused

I sometimes feel I spend my days rejecting food and lights smile

BenadrylCucumberpatch Wed 26-Apr-17 18:06:34

Good luck OP, I hope nobody tries to force light or food or a cup of tea on you again today smile

NavyandWhite Wed 26-Apr-17 18:07:51

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

summersloegin Wed 26-Apr-17 18:09:37

I know Navy, I was upset (not about something so silly!) and hormonal - forgiven? smile

picklemepopcorn Wed 26-Apr-17 18:10:35

Ah, helpful advice! I don't know how old you are, but when I hit 45 I suddenly couldn't see without the light on. Now it's incomprehensible to me that the young are able to read and write in semi darkness... PUT THE LIGHT ON! wink

picklemepopcorn Wed 26-Apr-17 18:12:01

And now I'm hearing that woman from father ted saying 'Ah go on...'

NavyandWhite Wed 26-Apr-17 18:23:46

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

BollardDodger Wed 26-Apr-17 18:35:40

I'd scream at you too, OP, as you're not making any sense. I hate it when people don't talk sense.

ChocolateSherberts2017 Wed 26-Apr-17 20:47:47

Ok I understand, I had a similar incident at the Dr's today. I had to update my contact details form so went over to the reception desk to lean on. The receptionist snapped at me Sat that she hadn't started work yet. I explained that I wanted to lean on the desk while I updated the form. She just huffed and puffed and gave me a filthy look, a total overreaction on her part.

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