I am fully prepared to accept that perhaps I'm being unreasonable but am fed up and wanted to vent.
I have a 12 week old son that I have really been struggling with naps since he was about a month old. I seem to spend all my days trying to help him go to sleep or reading/ coming on Mumsnet to try and find the answers!!
My mother in law recently gave up work and as a result has been coming round every day to help out and tidy the garden. I am super grateful for the offer of help but was getting it slowly sorted by myself during the times I have chance. I don't expect her to give up all her days to do our garden for us. My other half works six days a week so rarely gets time to help out with DIY.
As I said, she has been coming round every single day and while she is here she always wants to play with the baby and gives me her opinions on what I should be doing. An example is her telling me not to bother trying to get him to nap, he will go to sleep if he's tired!
I know she means well and is a very kind woman but does tend to take over and it's starting to grate on me. She also brings her very yappy dog with her when she comes round and he is forever barking.
Today, I've kind of reached my limit. I had been out with the pram for a bout an hour and had finally got the baby to sleep and arrived home to find her there. Her dog went mad and she started chatting at me and woke the baby up.
I just feel like my home isn't my own and that I have to go out in order to get my baby to sleep. I feel awful for resenting her being here but I just want to be let alone so I can try and get into some routine with my baby without her input.
I feel really mean but I just want to be left alone!
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mumofzach · 25/04/2017 11:45
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