So long story short....
Child of divorce, saw "dad"for a few years then contact just stopped. Not seen him since I was around 10, now 32.
No child maintenance to my mum, no xmas or bday. No big deal, had a great childhood brought up by mum and grandparents.
Still always had relationship with "dads" parents.
Cut to 4 years ago, grandpa on dads side past away. Was ill for a while.my uncle tried to get in touch with him(apparently works for military being a superhero😐)couldn't get in contact, works at the end of the earth blah blah blah!
Didn't appear at funeral. No contact since.
Sunday my lovely gran passes away. Today I find out that "dad" has been told and will be in our home town tomorrow and will be staying in my grans house! His 2nd ex wife told him. Even though before it would take weeks to get messages to him.
So my aunt made a good point yesterday about the possibility of him turning up as now that both his parents have passed there will be money.
He just makes me so angry that he didn't visit his mum once after his dad died.
I have been waiting for an opportunity for so long to ask him questions but now that is it becoming real I'm freaked out and feel that I just want to scream, shout and kick the cunt!
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AIBU to want to understand why he did what he did?
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Spaghettihoops23 · 24/04/2017 21:13
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