This is off the back of another thread.
I have two dd's. Dd1 is 8 and she stays with ex every other weekend and just slightly less than half the school holidays. He is a good dad and she loves him to pieces.
I recently had a health scare and it worried me to think that they would be separated if anything happened to me. The bond is so special between them it brings a tear to my eyes watching them together. (As I'm guessing a lot of parents feel watching siblings) they both adore each other.
I have been with DH for 5 years, he is brilliant and very involved in dd1's life. Treats them both the same.
Would dd1 be made to live with her dad or would she still be able to live with dh and have the same visits as she does now.
Dd1 is in a good school with friends and family all around her. Her dad lives 2 hours away in a very busy town and she doesn't have her own bedroom there. He is very much a 'Disney' dad as in no bedtime, no homework, eat what you want, which of course she LOVES
I think it would literally break their hearts for the girls to seperate, especially dd1 and then to be uprooted from her home, friends and family. She doesn't see ex's family.
Even with a will it doesn't always stand does it?
Maybe I shouldn't be worrying but it's really been playing on my mind.
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Would dd1 and dd2 get seperated?
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Steviea88 · 24/04/2017 20:08
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