Looking for opinions on this .. really not sure if I'm being unreasonable.
I've been with my boyf for 7 months. We never had the exclusive talk, but thought after 7 months we were exclusive. I don't multi-date/only date one person at a time. He knows this. I understand a lot of people do see several people at the same time and I'm ok with this up to a point with someone I'm seeing.
Boyf has been a bit dismissive of me lately and suddenly been going out with mates each weekend. I'm not controlling; I go out with my own mates, it was the sudden change in him that rang an alarm. So as not to drip feed, he has not introduced me to any of his friends.
I texted him last night asking were I stood and if we are exclusive seeing as we never had that talk. He responded taking the mick out of my timing (he was on the way out I think) and then told me to answer my own question. I took from this that we were not exclusive and said this back to him. He read and ignored my 3 texts (one of which was me asking him if I was wrong or Is he seeing other people). I gave up and told him I would drop something belonging to him to his place (leaving it safely hidden in his front garden) as I assumed we were over. If we were over then I didn't want to see him again and just wanted his stuff out of my flat. He texted to say that he couldn't believe I dropped his stuff off and that I was very weird to do so. Tbh it wasn't mine and I wasn't going to keep it.
Was I wrong to give him his stuff back? I feel like shit. I know we are over, but also Aibu for feeling so annoyed about him ignoring me? I feel like crap but not sure if it's my fault.
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dailydance · 23/04/2017 19:55
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