Please bear with me this may be a little rambly......
so a little background..... DH very rarely goes to bed before 12/1 it's been his way since I've known him. So as a result he does the last feed of it fits in around him going to bed.
We now have to gorgeous children a DD (2) and a DS (6 weeks)
I'm a teacher and currently on maternity and DD only goes to her childminder during term time, so for the last 2 weeks whilst DH has been out at work I've had both children from 8 til anytime between 3&6.
I do the night feeds for our DS (bottle fed) which can be once or twice a night and I'm still up just before or at the same time as DH because our DD wakes between 6.30 and 7.30.
So, the last few weeks DH has been coming straight in from work, sitting in the kitchen to complete work (that bit I understand) and then make a comment about not being able to go to the gym as it's not fair on me.
Normally I go to bed at 9/10 so that I can get a full nights sleep but last night I had to complete a job application so was up past my DH going to bed.
When I asked him to do the nightfeed he rolled his bloody eyes at me (and boy did he make a fuss at 4.30 when DS woke up!) I asked him to do the feed as today DH is going to the football at 12.30 and won't be back til 7 so another day on my own.
So the reason I'm miffed is
1: He constantly makes comments about how he desperately needs to get to the gym but can't because of me
2: He makes comments to people about how he shouldn't really do things like go to the gym/go to football because I won't want him to
3: Because he did the nightfeed last night he didn't get up til 11.30!! And will be leaving the house by 12.30
I guess I'm just venting and moaning!!
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Missmac84 · 22/04/2017 12:09
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