My daughter is two years into her university degree. After finishing school she went on a gap year and had a great time. We assumed that she would love university too. Homesickness wasn't much of a worry, or a problem, as she had been away from home for a whole year and loved it. She loved the first few months of university but after that I noticed her whole personality change. At school she was outgoing, bubbly and had a great group of close friends. Now, however, she is withdrawn, nervous, very quiet and has lost a lot of weight. After being at home during the holidays she quickly goes back to her normal, outgoing, happy self but a few days before she goes back to uni she gets withdrawn again. She always tells me how she really doesn't want to go back but seems to be 'okay' when she does return.
This morning she phoned me up saying that she wants to leave university for a year and travel. She cried and told me how she is extremely unhappy and sometimes goes days without speaking to anyone. She has acquaintances but no close friends despite her really trying for 2 years. She says that she will go back after a year but I highly doubt it. It will be even more difficult for her to go back and be a year behind her flatmates etc. She has always been extremely career focused and needs a degree to go into the field that she wants to be in. She is so close to finishing her degree and is getting great marks in exams. I really don't want her to leave and regret it in the future. AIBU to persuade her to keep trying?
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user1492786507 · 21/04/2017 16:08
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