By way of background we have a LOT of birthdays clustered around this time of year - it ends up costing not far off Christmas as so many of our children/close family were all born in a small window. Husband primary earner, works very long hours so I'm the primary carer for the kids plus work part time and take lead role for planning/organising events/trips/gifts etc. We are on different schedules - 2 hours difference between bedtimes/getting up.
Need to vent and conscious none of this is the end of the world BUT....
Decided to go to pub tonight to agree plan for the next week - lots of birthdays/house guests/family over and in the knowledge that everything works more smoothly if we've discussed it ahead of time off we went. It has been quite a long time since we've been out so what ended up happening was DH vented about work then we ended up having a state of the nation about the family finances. By the time we got to the birthday planning he'd run out of steam and insisted we could talk about it at home. Within 10 mins of being home he had switched off and then buggered off to bed, leaving me to figure it all out by myself.
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Brandnewbrighttomorrow · 21/04/2017 00:16
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