I've been a lurker for a while and I would genuinely like some thoughts please. I will try not to drip feed but equally not go on and on!
Hubby is from broken home. Parents split when he was small. Still has contact/relationship with both parents. We are married with two daughters. His dad and wife live some way away so we don't see them very often, but when we do, they make effort etc. His mum is close by. He has a sister with a son. My SIL and MIL have basically turned his family against me. They are all horrid to me and make digs at me and snipe at me. As an example, in my line of work I have experienced very unsavoury adults and so we have requested no photos of our young girls put onto social media without asking. At a recent event set up by SIL photos were taken by MIL and I politely said 'please don't put onto FB' she came over smiling, lent into me and whispered 'i will do what the f^*k I like with my photos' and walked away smiling to people as if she was whispering something pleasant! This same event I was not catered for (severe allergies) despite SIL knowing. I have literally seen SIL twice in last 9months.
Now my AIBU....AIBU to now really not give a hoot about the MIL, SIL and that branch of family and keep contact at bare minimum, if only so my DD know mil or should I be making more effort for DD to know SIL, despite her self righteous and wholly unpleasant attitude?
I should add DH sticks up for me and sees their behaviour and tries to encourage me to rise above it and ignore it, which I try to do but doesn't stop me feeling an outsider and unable to provide my DD with the family relationships on that side that they have with my family.
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Meandmyhamsterheadagain · 20/04/2017 20:33
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