long story short..
violent, emotionally abusive ex. have 2 dc together at toddler and baby stage. he got a conditional discharge and restraining order in january for an assault against me. there were incidents involving the children but nothing i can proof apart from some messages where he is apologisung and saying he never meant to do it to us.
now he wants to see the kids and will be taking me to court to do so. i havent got it in me to fight against him when ultimately he will one day end up with unsupervised contact anyway... but would i be unreasonable to cut out the middle man and somehow arrange contact for the kids.
cant work out if im just too broken down to fight against him having any sort of contact or if i know deep down there is no real point as i dont have a hope in hell of protecting them long term and the uncertainty of everything really badly affects my anxiety so would rather just get it over and done with.
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ohdeaeyme · 20/04/2017 07:18
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