Which should come first?!
DP is 32 and I am 23. We are engaged and currently live in a rented property where we have been for 3 years. We have enough money saved for a deposit on a house and with our combined salaries can afford a nice family home. However, this will mean using every last penny of our savings up... meaning a wedding would have to be quite some way away. We are also keen to have a nice long honeymoon together.
In addition, we are keen to start a family relatively soon (I always hoped to have my first by 25 and be married first) which is also going to cost us not only in purchasing all the necessaries but we would like to have some money saved up to make up for my maternity leave etc.
There is no way we can afford to do all 3 at this moment in time so I'm wondering how you all did things and how it worked out for you?!
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House/kids/marriage - in what order?!
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Jaimejaime · 19/04/2017 21:48
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