I was just wondering if I could get some other perspectives on this. Sorry this will be a long one. I have 3 DC's and broke up with their father when the youngest was just a few months old. The break up was mutual as he had found someone else and i had given up on the relationship prior to that.
The break up was fairly amicable, he moved into a house nearby and has drifted in and out of our lives fairly inconsistently. however, since I went back to work 2 years ago he was always done the Thursday childcare and has been fairly reliable with this.
since January he asked to have the dc's 2 nights a week.
I agreed to this but have had reservations that it's too long to be away from me and me from them.
Tonight I said to him that I wanted to reduce the nights to 1 a week, he would see them still for the full 2 days. He completely lost his temper, shouting, telling me to F off, that he would get a lawyer's letter, that
It was nothing to do with the kids that it was just me wanting him out of their lives.
It has really shaken me, I know if I phone my friends they will just totally see my side which I appreciate but I wondered how it seemed from mumsnet's point of view. Thanks...
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mrsmcginty · 18/04/2017 21:11
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