I've posted before that I don't get on with my neighbours. I don't like them, and the feeling is clearly mutual. This op is going to be mega long so i wont go into the backstory, unless people feel it's necessary? Their house (and garden) are quite small, as previously it was one larger house, like mine, but has been split into two. House size is relevant as they have a lot of children for such a small space, hence kids spend a lot of time unsupervised in the garden.
There is a pretty standard fence between our two gardens, wooden panels and concrete posts. A while back, one of the panels blew down. It is the panel where they seem to rest their bikes and also have a raised bed behind it, so it had become bowed. However as eventually my plan is to replace all the panels, bf and I fixed it temporarily and got it back up.
Before we did, Mr NDN put a snotty note on my door (sellotaped it on!) about how the panel was dangerous to his kids as it was leaning into their garden, blah blah. This annoyed me. I've not spoken to him since.
More recently, prob about a month ago, the panel blew down again, and it's now not really repairable. So I've left it. Panel is propped against my house, so nowhere near ndn house or garden. So I didn't expect them to have a problem...
Yesterday while I'm outside doing the garden one of the ndn kids tells me that her dad says I need to repair my fence(!). My response was if he's got something to say he can tell me himself.
He hasn't, but later when my bf arrived (we don't live together as ndn well know) ndn said to him the fence needed fixing! Bf replied that was for me to sort out and not his problem.
I am waiting for them now to tackle DS1 or 2 about it.
AIBU to think ndn should just get over it and wait? Am I missing something because he seems to me to be behaving like an entitled arse...the whole issue seems to be he doesn't want to supervise his kids in his own garden (they are often outside from 7.30-8, and always without a parent) but because they can get into my not kid friendly garden he or his wife now have to keep an eye on them.
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A neighbours/ fence issue (sorry it's long!)
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VelvetSpoon · 18/04/2017 17:03
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