Talk

Advanced search

Staying at in laws-AIBU?

(281 Posts)
Snowflakes1122 Mon 17-Apr-17 09:33:18

We are currently staying at in laws. Every morning without fail DH, FIL and the kids all get breakfast. DH and FIL get full on eggs, bacon the works etc and the kids whatever they want.
It's like I'm bloody invisible! I've been helping myself to some old cornflakes but they are all gone now. I don't even like them!

So this morning I've been sat watching everyone else eat lovely food and have coffees brought starving and 31 weeks pregnant. I wanted to cry!

I can't go into their kitchen and start making something as that offends MIL

AIBU to be pissed off, hormonal and upset? Why does she leave me out? confused

ineedaholidaynow Mon 17-Apr-17 09:34:49

What does your DH do when this happens?

SoloDance Mon 17-Apr-17 09:35:08

How strange. Why haven't you asked for some breakfast?

ememem84 Mon 17-Apr-17 09:35:36

Can't you just say what you want?

EduCated Mon 17-Apr-17 09:35:46

Ask your DH where your breakfast is.

JennyOnAPlate Mon 17-Apr-17 09:36:02

Why haven't you asked where yours is?

Moanyoldcow Mon 17-Apr-17 09:36:41

What? She makes breakfast for EVERYONE except you?

March in there now and ask her what she's made for you. If she blusters cut her off and tell her what you'd like.

That's fucking outrageous. My DH would never have allowed that but my PIL would never behave like that either.

SoloDance Mon 17-Apr-17 09:36:54

Do they think you don't want any breakfast? Have you told your DH or MiL that you do?

greenworm Mon 17-Apr-17 09:36:58

Huh? Do you mean you all sit at the table and everyone gets given breakfast except you? Why?

CaptainBrickbeard Mon 17-Apr-17 09:37:19

Why doesn't your DH say something? How can he just sit there and eat whilst his pregnant wife goes hungry? Does MIL think you don't want anything? Why is she leaving you out? And why are none of you saying anything??

SheldonsSpot Mon 17-Apr-17 09:37:32

Your DH is a twat.

HeddaGarbled Mon 17-Apr-17 09:37:45

Good grief, how come your H hasn't noticed that you haven't got any breakfast? Don't be a martyr - tell him.

FloatyCat Mon 17-Apr-17 09:39:14

Ask very loudly "what's for my breakfast?".
Seriously I would leave in inlaws, it's an odd way to treat you.

Chloe84 Mon 17-Apr-17 09:39:14

Your DH lets his 31 week pregnant wife get left out of breakfast? He is a fucking twat. Take him aside right now and tell him if this doesn't change, you're going home, never coming back and PIL are never welcome in your home again.

qwertyuiopasdfghjkl Mon 17-Apr-17 09:39:18

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

SomethingBorrowed Mon 17-Apr-17 09:39:45

Eh? Do you just sit there in silence? Why doesn't you say anything? Or your DH?
This sounds bizarre.

user1471558436 Mon 17-Apr-17 09:39:45

Your DH should give you his meal

SoloDance Mon 17-Apr-17 09:40:13

Good plan, qwerty.

RedandWhiteStripe Mon 17-Apr-17 09:40:26

What did your DH say when you asked him about it?

AmserGwin Mon 17-Apr-17 09:40:43

Wtf?? Say something or go in and make your own, and offend MIL by doing it if you have to

Nocabbageinmyeye Mon 17-Apr-17 09:40:57

Wtf??? What is your dh saying??? I'd honestly get dressed, head off somewhere nice and alone for breakfast then come back when I was calm and pack my bags and not return. How rude!!

EatDessertFirst Mon 17-Apr-17 09:41:06

Wow. You have a DH problem. Lovely he is to gobble a full english while his 31 week pregnant wife gets nothing. My flabber is ghasted.

SoloDance Mon 17-Apr-17 09:41:36

Your DH should ask his mum where your breakfast is.

NavyandWhite Mon 17-Apr-17 09:41:48

Your H sits there scoffing eggs and bacon whilst his pregnant wife has nothing? Really.

Why aren't you asking for it? Or making what you want? I don't understand all these threads that are appearing on MN atm where DIL's are being purposely starved by their evil MIL's. Why aren't you all standing up for yourself if this is what's really going on?

PurpleDaisies Mon 17-Apr-17 09:42:01

Have you raised this with your inlaws?

Join the discussion

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now