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To expect him to check on me?

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tactum Sun 16-Apr-17 19:58:32

Dh playing sport all day with D's. My DM been unwell for days, taken to hospital this am after ringing 999. Bro n sis there, she's now having emergency surgery. I Last text dh about 4 pm saying she had x condition, due to have surgery today. Obv didn't go in to all the details via text but he could tell it was pretty big deal I'm sure - I mentioned having to possibiy travel up today.

Sport finished at 7. Ds was just dropped at end of drive now by dh and dh is apparently going for a pint before coming home. No contact from him at all to check how DM is or how I am coping with all this.

Aibu to think he should have at least called in for an update and a hug or dare I say it, not have gone for a drink???? I know I could have text him with all the details but really, should I have to??

BarneyRumbleton Sun 16-Apr-17 19:59:54

Has he definitely seen your text?

tactum Sun 16-Apr-17 20:01:09

Yes he replied to it v specifically

HecateAntaia Sun 16-Apr-17 20:05:15

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MrsHenryWales Sun 16-Apr-17 20:06:57

He's a numpty.

SorryForCallingYourMumACunt Sun 16-Apr-17 20:07:02

He has basically seen it as a tidy option to go for a pint.

I'd want support (in text at the very least) in some way.


tactum Sun 16-Apr-17 20:07:48

Thank you. I think his stock response would be seeing as I hadn't the t him further he didn't think anything had changed or he was needed.

Allthewaves Sun 16-Apr-17 20:10:41

Just give him a ring and tell him to come home

HecateAntaia Sun 16-Apr-17 20:12:01

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twattymctwatterson Sun 16-Apr-17 20:12:12

Is he normally so unsupportive?

tactum Sun 16-Apr-17 20:20:02

Pretty much

twattymctwatterson Sun 16-Apr-17 20:42:18

I'd be very hurt by this and if it's a regular occurrence it would make me question my life with this man

tactum Sun 16-Apr-17 20:44:31

He's back home now and knows he's fucked up. Im upstairs having told him not to touch me. Our day to day life is fine but I guess in a crisis you see things clearly

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