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AIBU?

Texting while driving

115 replies

Shrzx1105 · 15/04/2017 14:30

DH texts and drives sometimes. He has managed to not get into any accidents (yet...) but yesterday he almost hit a car stopped in front of us because he was texting

I have told him multiple times that I am not comfortable with him texting while I'm in the car but he just told me he never forced me to get in the car with him. AIBU to ask him to stop texting and driving??

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cardibach · 15/04/2017 14:32

It's against the law, so, yeah, he should stop.

NewIdeasToday · 15/04/2017 14:33

I would just refuse to get in the car with him if he ever did it again.

Jaynebxl · 15/04/2017 14:34

Tell him he can dictate the text to you and you can type it into his phone if it's that urgent.

NurseButtercup · 15/04/2017 14:34

It's now illegal to text and drive points and a fine. Google it and show your DH if that doesn't make him stop well...let the police catch him.

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Softkitty2 · 15/04/2017 14:35

Do you have children in the car when he does this?

I hope he gets caught by the police doing it.

Selfish bastard. Does he realise he can kill people and ruin lives?!

humblesims · 15/04/2017 14:35

he's an idiot. If he doesnt realise that his actions could result in the death of others and himself and you then he's an idiot and shouldnt be allowed to drive. I would not get in a car with him.

FannyWisdom · 15/04/2017 14:35

Photo him and report it.

Better he has the 6 points and fine than hurting someone.

redshoeblueshoe · 15/04/2017 14:39

His texts must be amazing if they are worth dying for

SelfObsessionHoney · 15/04/2017 14:40

He sounds like a fucking idiot and precisely the type of person who needs his liscence revoking.

MrsDoylesTeabags · 15/04/2017 14:42

What's so important to him that he has to break the law and put himself, you and other road users at risk?

gamerchick · 15/04/2017 14:43

Does he know it's illegal and apparently bizzies are riding buses to catch people doing it?

Hope he's caught tbh.

HighwayDragon1 · 15/04/2017 14:46

6 points and a £200 fine, and you know, the possibility he could kill someone. Don't get in the car with him, don't let the kids in the car with him.

Highmaintenancefemalestuff · 15/04/2017 14:48

I hope he's caught!
This makes me see red more than anything!
Nothing he is texting is more important than the safety of his passengers or other road users. If my Dh did this, me or my children would not get in a car with him, luckily he's not a massive twat and doesn't use his phone whilst driving.

SomewhatIdiosyncratic · 15/04/2017 14:48

It's been illegal since about 2003. The recent change is just an increase in the consequences to those caught.

harderandharder2breathe · 15/04/2017 14:49

He's a twat and I hope he's caught before he kills someone

Refuse to get in the car with him. It could be you he kills

Flossimodo · 15/04/2017 14:51

I would refuse to get in the car unless he gave me his phone to put in my bag for the duration. And I would stick to that resolution.

NerrSnerr · 15/04/2017 14:59

I would refuse to get in the car or insist I drive. Is he driving children when he's doing it?

Woody67 · 15/04/2017 15:02

What Floss said.

Instasista · 15/04/2017 15:05

I'm a bit confused by this- do you seriously think you could potentially be unreasonable to ask your husband not to drive whilst texting? Is it a serious question or a rant?

At the same time- you've told him you don't want him to do it- what else can you do? He's obviously not going to listen to you

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/04/2017 15:05

Video him and show the police.

IrregularCommentary · 15/04/2017 15:06

Your dh is a cunt.

Don't get in the car with him if he does this, and don't let him drive your dc if you have any.

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YellowDinosaur · 15/04/2017 15:06

Get him to read this and then try and justify any he things messing about with his phone while driving is reasonable...

www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/37823457

angeldiver · 15/04/2017 15:07

Take a picture, if possible, of him texting and with the speedo in the background. Then send it to the police.

Instasista · 15/04/2017 15:10

Showing him articles about other people dying isn't likely to work. Telling him it's illegal isn't likely to
Work. I presume he isn't totally thick and is aware of these well
Publicised pieces of information.

And they police won't do anything unless they catch him in the act. And if you're actually considering shopping your husband go the police I'd advise you just to leave him. That's not normal
Spousal behaviour.

All you can control is yourself, which means not getting in the car with him. It will be incredibly weird, especially in front of other people, but you clearly want to do something so what else is there?

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