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ROTFLBSST Fri 14-Apr-17 20:39:06

Currently have DH and two of his friends sat in our living room drinking, all fine they're nice guys. What I'm struggling with is for the last 1 hr and a half they've been speaking another language which I don't speak. Tried initially to chat but soon sat here plum like. I never mind DH catching up with mates just kinda wish they were doing this somewhere else so I can get on with stuff, least feel less awkward but wouldn't look good if I sodded off...any suggestions?! Or AIBU??

FataliePorkman Fri 14-Apr-17 20:41:07

Just leave them to it. Why wouldn't it look good if you added off? They are your DHs friends not yours

2gorgeousboys Fri 14-Apr-17 20:44:48

Absolutely agree, go and have some I time for you. Half the time my DH and my sons are talking it's another language of football, rugby, cars and such like so I go for a bath and leave them to it. (Disclaimer there are also times we talk dancing, clothes, feelings, friendships etc when I am involved but there are only so many discussions about the best premier league team or new Mercedes I am interested in!)

ROTFLBSST Fri 14-Apr-17 21:10:23

Think it's feeling like a part host....good points though thanks guys I have subsequently disappeared off to bed. Although we had plans to make an early start for tomorrow but as they've now just gone out that's looking unlikely!

MrsTerryPratchett Fri 14-Apr-17 21:35:17

It's nice to relax in your own language with friends. No sense you hanging around.

Jaynebxl Fri 14-Apr-17 21:37:16

Absolutely leave them to it. I leave dh and his friends to it and we all speak the same laguage.

freeDeirdreRachid Fri 14-Apr-17 21:37:45

They've gone and it's 9pm, why would you not think you'd still be able to have an early start tomorrow? confused

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