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Worried She is Having An Affair

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jamesk0001 Fri 14-Apr-17 18:59:14

DW has lost a lot of weight over the last few months since the new year, going from 10 stone to 7 stone and is making a real effort to look better, going to the gym, wearing make up etc, buying new clothes.

Last night she went out with the girls and got home late. I was in bed and she thought I was asleep.

I noticed that when she got undressed she was wearing stockings and had totally shaved down there! She has never done that before and has not worn stockings since we got married 30 years ago!

In the morning she had already got up and dressed before I awoke. So I haven't officially seen the shaved area and am dying to bring it up but don't want to be told a lie!

Other changes are that she is always texting on her phone and has really gone off intimate times with me.

We are both in our 50s and this is burning me up!

Advice gratefully received!

Crunchymum Fri 14-Apr-17 19:00:42

She lost 3st in a few months? What's her secret?

MrsTerryPratchett Fri 14-Apr-17 19:00:48

It sounds bad. Sorry.

SmileEachDay Fri 14-Apr-17 19:01:06

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SusanDelfino Fri 14-Apr-17 19:01:17

Yeah, sounds like an affair

Brokejoke Fri 14-Apr-17 19:03:10

Well, if my dh had suddenly shaved I would just ask him about it. Same if he was texting all the time. Her losing weight and making more effort with her appearance doesn't mean she is having an affair though.

Funnyonion17 Fri 14-Apr-17 19:05:25

I would be concerned about her going to 7st so fast firstly. The rest does sound suspicious hmm

FittonTower Fri 14-Apr-17 19:07:51

Losing a nearly a third of her body weight that quickly does not sound healthy - have you checked she's ok? Do you talk? Maybe ask her what's going on

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Fri 14-Apr-17 19:09:18

Fucking hell, please ask her how she did the weight loss? shock

WhooooAmI24601 Fri 14-Apr-17 19:10:06

Nobody under the age of 400 wears stockings on a night out any more. YABU being married to a 400 year old.

Trifleorbust Fri 14-Apr-17 19:11:13

Gosh. Did you get a horrible fright? I'm not sure stockings and a shaved wotsit would do it for my DH now, let alone 30 years from now blush

jamesk0001 Fri 14-Apr-17 19:17:25

Weight loss is Slimming World, there is no sugar or fat in the house anywhere, not even for the cornflakes in the morning and all the milk has gone to red top (yuck!).

She also goes to the gym in the morning and evening for at least an hour every day which is new since the new year and cycles everywhere as well when she used to drive.

Mrsknackered Fri 14-Apr-17 19:43:35

WhooooAmI24601 I just laughed so hard at that.
7st? How tall is she? hmm

HelenaWay Fri 14-Apr-17 19:46:02

hmm

Frillyhorseyknickers Fri 14-Apr-17 19:53:33

You're in your 50s and using phrases like "burning me up"?!

CakesAreBiscuitsToo Fri 14-Apr-17 19:55:53

My advice is to use far, far less exclamation marks.

Waffles80 Fri 14-Apr-17 19:59:06

Agreed cakes. Sound advice.

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jamesk0001 Fri 14-Apr-17 20:03:24

Christ, some people on here can be so unpleasant.

HomityBabbityPie Fri 14-Apr-17 20:07:35

Yeah ok, this definitely sounds real.

GeekyWombat Fri 14-Apr-17 20:15:32

What lie do you think she would tell you for shaving her bits?

I'm just curious

shyturnip Fri 14-Apr-17 20:16:35

Ditto the question of losing 3 stone! shock

ghostyslovesheets Fri 14-Apr-17 20:19:38

she's probably fed up of living with a man who wont buy his own bloody milk to be fair

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