I used to get on with my upstairs neighbour, until he got a job with funny hours and started leaving his large dog howling upstairs while he was at work. It was waking DD (only 1yo at the time) and after several attempts at speaking to him about it, he got aggressive and started swearing at me in the hallway. I ended up getting our housing association involved and they spent 8 months getting him to get rid of the dog as he wasn't actually allowed it. (The dog isn't actually gone, but nor is it left alone for 12+ hours at a time anymore so it's neither here nor there).
So there's a history of noise complaints. And every time his children are staying the night, it's very noisy too. This is usually above my living room though so I ignore it (or try my best to) because it doesn't wake DD.
Last night however, the noise was above both of our bedrooms too. And it wasnt normal playing noise. He, his children, and I now realise 2 extra children, were all jumping off furniture (as part of some game or other I imagine). My light fittings were swinging because the ceiling was vibrating so much. This was going on from a bit before 9pm until at least 11:30pm when I had to take DD to DM's to get some sleep. (Not entirely relevant but I worked 13 hours on my feet yesterday and the day becore so not being able to sleep really was torture). This is the third time in total that I've had to do this due to excessive noise upstairs. I tried to knock on and speak to him but he ignored me.
I've spoken to the HA today and they've basically said that they don't legally have to get involved until there's a large body of evidence. They advise to go to the environmental health and get all the monitoring equipment fitted...even though the majority of the time things are now quieter. They acknowledge that it's an ongoing thing that they did used to deal with but say they've had to make cuts and essentially unless he was threatening me with violence, they will no longer get involved in antisocial behaviour.
How would you go about sorting this? AIBU to not want to get the environmental health involved to listen in on everything for months in order to present the HA with 'adequate evidence' that his noise levels do on occasion massively exceed what is acceptable? AIBU to think that they should at least in the first instance talk to this neighbour? It just doesn't feel like the route they're presenting is proportionate because it will pick up on all of the excessive noise, not just the occasions I'm not willing to ignore.
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LostMyDotBrain · 13/04/2017 12:34
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