I'm going to try not to ramble about this but my daughter's party was last week and my daughter has two particular friends - I'll call them Sophie and Lily (not from school) where Lily has historically been mean to Sophie (not involving my own dd though - she gets on with both of them). They are 7. Sophie's mum is a great friend of mine and also has been on the receiving end of some awful behaviour from Lily's mum. I don't like Lily's mum either but I have nothing to do with her.
My dd wanted to invite both Sophie and Lily and also children from school. I was not going to suggest inviting Lily but she asked several times and I felt that i should respect her wishes of who she wanted to invite.
I think my friend feels that I've been disloyal to her by inviting Lily. Lily's mum replied late the day before the party so I also hadn't warned my friend she would be there. I don't think she's going to end the friendship over it but I do feel bad because I think the world of this friend and she really is a lovely person. I also think that Sophie didn't enjoy the party as much as she would if Lily hadn't been there which is a shame. Luckily Lily's mum wasn't there!
If you had been in my position would you have invited Lily? As I say I do feel bad but I only invited her because my dd wanted her to come and it was her party after all. But I can see that perhaps I did the wrong thing.
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lottieandmia · 10/04/2017 15:32
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