I've been friends with him three years now. He's never been out of a relationship during that time. First relationship was 5 years (I met him shortly before that ended), then 1 year and now he's just started dating someone new. He has never been single for more than a few weeks and he doesn't seem to want to be.
He flaunts his relationships online and is forever declaring his love for whatever girlfriend he has but the main motivation to start the new relationship seems to be to make the previous girlfriend jealous.
When we are together his conversation alternates between putting his current girlfriend down and making jokes about them not being the one, to talking about all the women we know who he finds hot. He's a good friend, very loyal and always willing to help me with anything. He's been a friend when I've been in need and never does anything to me that I could ever be annoyed about. But this constant degrading of women in front of me and bad mouthing his latest girlfriend is really putting me off him. Ive told him if he really doesn't like whichever girlfriend he is dating he needs to end the relationship. I even for a while thought he might be gay but know he's not. Just immature. I don't think I can be friends with someone like that. He's disrespecting his girlfriends and disrespecting women he doesn't even know by rating their looks like that. Would it be unreasonable to end the friendship with someone who has been good to me over this? Do you think it's just immaturity and something I should over look? He's almost 30!
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Male friend always complains about women. AIBU to end the friendship
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user1491688158 · 09/04/2017 19:23
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