My friend has been with her DP for 3 years, they're getting married in the summer.
They met online yet their "first meet" story is much cuter; they'd been chatting for a couple of weeks online when my Friend's (let's call her Sarah) car broke down in front of the pub her Fiance (*Eric) was working.
It was fairly late, so she went into the pub to get a drink and wait for the AA. Unbeknownst to her, Eric was working behind the bar and served her. As they'd never met in person before, they didn't immediately recognise one another. She was there for several hours and they chatted the whole time, getting on like a house on fire. It wasn't long that they realised that they already "knew" one another. Obviously they're together now, blissfully happy. It all seemed like a dream come true and that fate had broken down Sarah's car that night, right next to Eric.
HOWEVER, I've just found out from Sarah that this wasn't actually the lovely coincidence it seems. She actually knew that Eric worked at that pub and, wanting to meet him without any pressure, went in there under the pretence of her car having broken down.
Sarah's absolutely lovely, not manipulative or sneaky at all, but pretty shy; she says that she really liked him but wanted to meet without first date pressure, as she'd had a few really nasty first date experiences (one guy was really quite abusive).
Eric has absolutely no idea.
Now I'm fully aware this is between them, and it's really none of my business - and I'm not going to make it my business! However, I can't actually figure out whether SIBU by keeping this a secret or not. Eric, as far as I'm aware, has never spoken about their first meet and he absolutely adores her.
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CharliesSister · 08/04/2017 16:08
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notanurse2017 ·
08/04/2017 16:38
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