Long term lurker, but first time poster, so please be kind! Bit of a back story, apologies.
DS 23 is a lovely lad, with a long history of anxiety & mh issues, which we have tried to deal with as a family. As he doesn't drive yet, when he got his dream job about a year ago, with much dread on my part, we bought him a little motorbike. All was fine until last winter, when he hit black ice & crashed, tearing ligaments & his miniscus. 10 weeks of inactivity in pain & too much time to ruminate lead him to take an overdose of the painkillers prescribed by hospital & doctor. Luckily I found him & after a week on a ventilator & then hospital & then a psychiatric ward & lots of input from CMHT, he was making a good recovery & occ health allowed him back to work - all good. He's been back at work for 2 months & doing really well. Sunday night, coming home on his bike (driving test booked, but not taken yet), someone turned out of a side road onto the main road, didn't see him & hit him full on. He broke every bone in his leg (femur snapped right through) & had 7 hours of surgery to pin it all back together.
I am SO angry for my poor boy & I am struggling to understand why some people seem to live a happy, charmed life, where nothing seems to go wrong & some people seem to have to endure so much. A lovely woman in our town's husband left her, her son was killed at 19 & then a fire burnt her house down. She'd never done anyone a moments harm in her life. I am trying to be positive & I'm so thankful that she didn't kill him, but I am struggling. How do others deal with life's cruel & arbitrary acts? I genuinely need to know!
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AIBU to be angry at life - and how do you come to terms with it?
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PeaGreen63 · 07/04/2017 16:34
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