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lunchisabanquet Thu 06-Apr-17 22:35:49

One of those memories came up on Facebook of me and some friends at a hen party. Shared it and tagged friends but one had deleted me so I put 'unfortunately I can't tag 'anna' as she has deleted me.'

Then I got an irate message from Anna telling me why she deleted me and to take down my status at once did I do something wrong?

FataliePorkman Thu 06-Apr-17 22:37:04

Tad passive aggressive OP. If you have a problem sort it out in private.

imNew1985 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:38:01

Why did you have to say she's deleted you? Just don't tag her. Childish from both of you really. People can delete whoever they want. Stupid Facebook anyway!

GeillisTheWitch Thu 06-Apr-17 22:38:27

Yeah the "I can't tag Anna because she has deleted me" was weird and comes across as drama seeking.

Chloe84 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:39:09

Why did she delete you?

GeillisTheWitch Thu 06-Apr-17 22:39:09

Why did she say she deleted you, just out of curiosity?

Cocklodger Thu 06-Apr-17 22:39:36

Yep, weird, seems to be seeking a bit of drama. Not something that needed saying

Jengnr Thu 06-Apr-17 22:39:47

Why did she delete you? Unless I'm missing something huge it seems like a bit of an over reaction but it probably wasn't worth mentioning in the first place. YABBU!

lunchisabanquet Thu 06-Apr-17 22:39:58

She deleted me because she didn't like me statuses about brexit hmm

MiscellaneousAssortment Thu 06-Apr-17 22:43:36

Not weird, just more open than is the usual ettiquette on there. Could be passive aggressive from her point of view, although if she was trading on deleting you without anyone knowing, it's more like you called her on it & she felt embarrassed?

I hate the delete thing as then the 'people you might know' function then pops up with them and it's really awkward sometimes! Not just if they were having a friends clear out etc, but if they were doing it to be mean or make a point, that kind of negative social stuff... ugh, I hate all that stuff!

HarryPottersMagicWand Thu 06-Apr-17 22:45:37

It does seem a tad PA.

What exactly did you say about Brexit? Everyone is entitled to their opinion even if we don't agree.

Scholes34 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:47:10

Yes, you were being weird.

Scholes34 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:48:20

Bexit is a subject best not discussed. It's too devisive.

VimFuego101 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:48:54

You sound very childish TBH.

Dogivemeabreak Thu 06-Apr-17 22:49:29

Wow. 12 year olds go to hen parties.

AmysTiara Thu 06-Apr-17 22:50:00

Yep it was weird to say she's deleted you

Lewwat Thu 06-Apr-17 22:50:11

Totally disagree! Fuck her! She deleted you.... But doesn't want everyone knowing that she did.

Oh well

God job she's not your friend anymore.... And can't dictate what you write on fb

RiversrunWoodville Thu 06-Apr-17 22:53:09

Probably a stupid question but how did she know about the post if she deleted you? <misses point>

Itaintme Thu 06-Apr-17 22:55:04

Grow up.

Fruitcocktail6 Thu 06-Apr-17 22:55:19

Passive aggressive and childish, are you still at school?

RedheadLover Thu 06-Apr-17 22:55:47

Yes, you might honestly not realise it but what you did is definitely not the done thing on Facebook and would have come across as weird.

TomaytoTomahto Thu 06-Apr-17 22:56:13

It's her Facebook she can delete whomever she wishes. Your "unfortunately I can't tag 'anna' as she has deleted me." statement sounds a bit childish and bitter TBH.

PoorYorick Thu 06-Apr-17 23:02:57

Yes, it was PA and non-quirky, non-idiosyncratic weird. If I realise someone's unfriended me and hasn't told me why, I just leave it. 99% of the time we hadn't met or spoken in ten years anyway, which is a good enough reason.

PoorYorick Thu 06-Apr-17 23:03:50

Riversrun, I expect Anna saw it on her feed because OP had tagged mutual friends.

JonesyAndTheSalad Thu 06-Apr-17 23:04:03

Yes. Weird.

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