Hi all my friend rang me today to tell me that 19 years ago she was raped by a few people while in a field drinking with friends. She said I should remember as me and my other friend were there. The thing is I wasn't and have never gone to this said place and drank. I often went there just to visit these friends but never hung around there long as I never felt comfortable with them. They were kinda into drinking at weekends etc. We were 15 at the time. My friend said she woke up in the field, with her pants and underwear down & 3 guys laughing at her. She doesn't know what they did as she thinks she passed out. She recalls other guys nearby who were saying "that was wrong that shouldn't have happened". When I told her I wasnt there as didn't like mixing with those people, she said maybe me and my friend came home and she stayed on so. She had been to police and said that they will want our statement. But I don't have a statement, I have no idea what happened or when and neither does she going on what she is saying. I don't even know if there is enough evidence or proof even to bring this to court. I guess she wud need the people to confess which I highly doubt. We were very close friends but grew apart in the years and it's only the last year or so we r back in contact. I don't doubt what she is saying at all but I can't help worry about being dragged into something that I genuinely know nothing about. The guys she is accusing were 16 and one was in his early 20''s. They r all married now with kids etc. I am so confused and paniced about it all to be honest as I want to be there for my friend but I can't lie or say anything about these other people or that night as I just don't know anything. I told her I have no problem telling police we went to this neighbourhood often and we knew these guys and we often drank beer underage, but I said I can't say anything else cos I was most definitely not there. Am i worrying over nothing ? Wud she really expect me to make up a statement ? Overthinking it? My poor friend, I wish I could help her more and wish she gets the justice she deserves but I just don't know
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