We bought a house and moved into it three months ago. Dh, me and our 3 young kids.
My siblings all live maybe 30 to 40 mins away and have called in at some point to see the house.
My dh's family all live about an hours drive away. His parents and four siblings.. all married with kids. None of them have been to see our new house. I've invited each of them - sent texts saying how we'd love them to call or in conversation i might say the kids would love to show their cousins their bedrooms. And there have been a number of occasions where we know some of them have been less than a 15 minute drive from our house. We're close to a big city.
We're in contact reasonably regularly but they keep saying they're busy. But i don't believe they are so busy that they can't spare a few hours. It bugs me. My dh isn't as bothered but he would love if they visited.
We visit his family fairly regularly - maybe once every 4 to 6 weeks. I honestly think that if we didn't make the effort that we would never see them and our kids wouldn't know their cousins. And we do get on well when we're all together.
My dh is a fantastic son and brother - he would do anything for his family and they are so important to him. I just can't understand why none of them have bothered to show an interest in something that is so important to us.
We'll be calling to them at some point over easter and i'm going to have stop myself from sounding annoyed at their lack of interest.
If one of my siblings bought a new house i'd really look forward to seeing it and congratulating them on the purchase. Aibu about expecting them to visit our new home?
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Amber76 · 05/04/2017 23:25
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