MIL has accused us of being selfish when it comes to spending time with DD. (7 weeks old)
This stems from the fact that we do not want to spend one day every weekend with her as DH wants to have time just the 3 of us as he works full time so weekends are important to him. Also if she comes round in the evening during the week I refuse to keep her awake if she is ready to go to sleep. She normally will have a visit of at least and hour before DD goes to sleep.
The longest she has gone without seeing DD is 9 days. At 7 weeks old i don't think this is unreasonable. Especially given the fact that my DM will see DD a lot less as we do not live in same town.
An issue also seems to be that we won't let her take DD on a walk on her own. We're not comfortable with this yet. (Is very much a yet as we have no intention of not letting her see DD alone when we and more importantly DD are ready)
AWBU to not want to spend one day every weekend with MIL? How often do other GPs spend with 2 month old grandkids?
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Sorry folks. Another MIL one.
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imisschocolate · 03/04/2017 14:48
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