He had a diagnoses of prostate cancer ten years ago but has been fine with ongoing treatment.
However, the medications were making his bones brittle so he came off one of them and today he had to go to get the results of a lump in his lower back.
DH rang him before the appointment and FIL said he'd ring DH "later".
DFIL hasn't rung and I'm so worried. I love DFIL and lost my own DDAD fifteen years ago to cancer so this is making me feel very wobbly...I'm worried about how DH will cope and about how I'll cope...selfish as that sounds.
DH hasn't rung up because he says his Dad will ring him when he's ready. Does that sound ok or should I be encouraging DH to ring his Dad up? It's nine thirty at night here...we're in Oz.
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DFIL might be very ill and I can't take it
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JonesyAndTheSalad · 03/04/2017 12:59
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