Firstly I know I'm being a bit unreasonable, but not sure how much so.
Me and my boyfriend got keys to a house on Wednesday and he's been there every day until late, get stuff sorted so we can stay there for the first time tonight.
My best friends are home from uni for Easter holidays and we've not been able to arrange a get together the three of us, due to holidays work etc! Got a group whatsapp last night to say they could do tonight now, if I could.
So a bit of a row with my bf followed, him not happy I'm planning on meeting friends when we are supposed to be moving in tonight! Me not happy he used the term babysitting for his own daughter!
He left early this morning to go to the house, saying 'just do what you want' I think he mumbled 'you always do'. My mum doesn't think I'm being unreasonable to do just that and we can just move in on Sunday, my friends obviously don't think I am.
I was inclined to agree and do what I want, which is see my friends.
But, he's now just sent a message, saying he's sorry, he was just upset as he's looking forward to us moving in. He knows I don't see A&B often and I should go. That's made me feel bad though and I wonder if I'm being more unreasonable than I originally thought.
Worth adding, he's never in our 3 years together, not been ok with me going out/changing plans or anything. And he's not sulky or moody so him saying go won't mean he'll then be funny with me, he's not like that!!
So AIBU to go out with friends instead of staying in with him? Please be brutally honest!
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To go out with friends when I had plans with my partner?
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Emboo19 · 01/04/2017 11:41
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