Had some personal issues with her from my childhood which we resolved, but I think it's boiling down to "I just don't like her"
My mum is a hypocrite, she'll ask me about my friends and call them names, like slags, bitches, psycho's for things like boyfriend trouble etc, which I can't say anything in their defence. However, i called a girl from her work boring and a sly cow and all hell broke loose, I can't have an opinion unless it is the same as hers. My mum will never be in the wrong and she never apologises, she has to be one cut above and constantly brings up negative things that my dad has said about me in arguments which upsets me as he passed away 2 years ago.
If I ask her not to do something she gets defensive and aggressive, I get spoken to like a 5 year old and if I ever need to borrow money for a bus pass or something I am a scrounger (I'm a law student workin part time) and a "fucking pisstaker" but she will tell anyone how caring she is and how nice she is
My mum has constantly made herself the centre of grief with my dads family, and if I say anything that I've had no support she shouts at me because "she's fucking supportive to me" which is a lie as she never even asks
AIBU to basically think my mum is vile?
(Planning on moving out very very soon)
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Gracey1231 · 01/04/2017 09:10
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