Wasn't sure where the best place to post this was, originally posted in 30 days only but didnt get any replies. My baby is 9 weeks old, his dad and I have had a bit of a complicated relationship. We broke up when I was 7 months pregnant but when DS was 2 weeks old we decided to give it another try. I still live at my mums, boyfriend has his own house but I'm not moving in anytime soon.
At the moment we have an arrangement which was arranged when we were separated and I was an emotional week post-baby mess that he pays half of costs for formula/nappies/clothes etc per month. However, with the extra costs of the baby, and paying my parents rent, I'm struggling a bit. I'm wondering if, because we are a couple, but not living together, he needs to pay me what the standard child maintenance is? Which I worked out about £40 per week. At the moment he pays a quarter of that.
If it helps he has him Friday/Sat every other week, one of which I'll stay over at his with DS.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Child maintenance when you are a couple but living separately
9 replies
pyjamapyjama · 31/03/2017 21:38
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.