I'm with my boyf about 7 months. During this time he hasn't paid for a night out / meal. Maybe a few times he has got an extra round in. I have paid for a meal for him early on, expecting that it would be one of those, he'll pay for the next one and I'll get another meal so that it balances out but still feels like a treat. Turns out that I was wrong, we split each bill.
He asked me if I wanted to go to a gig with him soon and told me how much the ticket is so I can give home the money. It's less than £40 so not expensive. Before anyone asks, I'm late 30s, he's early 40s and neither of us are particularly strapped for cash. I have quite a bit less than he does however. For Xmas & birthday gifts he has either cooked dinner and got a couple of other things (can't say as v outing, maybe cost a tenner at most). I've spent about 100 on each of his.
I'm getting the feeling that he's pretty tight, but I am probably being unreasonable too and sound v ungrateful. It would just be so lovely to be made feel a bit special, even with just the odd meal or the ticket. Am I being unreasonable?? I'm half tempted to tell him I don't want to go to the gig (but I actually do want to go so would be cutting my nose off to spite my face)
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dailydance · 31/03/2017 20:09
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