Hi!
Verg simple: I hate my MIL. She's rude. She's offensive. She's racist.
I am from abroad married to a lovely English man. I don't know how such sweet person could share the same genes with someone so nasty and bitter like his mum.
Anything that is about me, my country, my culture or my family is rubbish. "Your dad is a snob and over the top (because he wanted to give me a car to go around with my DS); your dad is outdated (he's a doctor); what sort of doctor he is if he believes in God?. "Your mother is so superficial... I mean she does nothing". I found that very rude but I didn't care when she said those things.
"People from your country are so superficial, aren't they"...
"Here in England we don't need cleaners or our family around. We know how to do things properly by ourselves". "You should go back to work after a few months after having the baby. Every woman does that in England and we manage". "You should be working full time now like every English woman". DS is 7 months old.
Oh and she has this thing of pulling faces at people behind their back. She sticks her tongue out and shakes her head like a child.
She loves to whisper unpleasant things when you're in the middle of doing something or when you're leaving to somewhere else.
I know I know... those things are not that bad and sound very silly but they built up for the last 6 years. Every time we go to visit my in-laws I get upset the week before because I know she'll annoy me once I'm there.
She's from a small village, simple life, no education. She won't change.
We are planning the next visit and my husband wants to stay for one week. I don't think I can hold my tongue this time and I'm dreaming about telling her to shut up that bloody sarcastic mouth.
If anyone with similar experience could give me some insights about what kind of responses she should hear when she's sarcastic/rude I would be glad!
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eletralambchop · 31/03/2017 01:11
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