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AIBU to not want to use a bottle myself?

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SeaLover · 30/03/2017 08:34

My DD is EBF and 10 weeks old, but with work looming and some evenings out coming up (that I am looking forward to!) we are currently practising expressing and giving my DD a bottle. 3 goes it isn't going great so we are trying new teats.
Anyway - yesterday MiL suggested I give her the bottle maybe once a day for her to get used to it and make it so it's not then a problem to other people giving her the bottle.
AIBU to really not want to? I wanted the bottle to be everyone else's 'thing', I'm really enjoying breastfeeding and I don't want to give her a bottle when she is with me and I can feed her myself!
TIA

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Wishiwasmoiradingle2017 · 30/03/2017 08:38

I went back to work part time when ds was 10 weeks old. He took a bottle once a day for dh but I didn't myself as he wouldn't take one from me !!
Maybe your mil is after some unsupervised time with dd and this is her subtle hint?

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Twatxit · 30/03/2017 08:42

It's much easier to drink from a bottle for a baby, no work involved. So I was very clear that the bottle couldn't come from me, just don't let it be an option. That can be mil or dad's thing

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SquedgieBeckenheim · 30/03/2017 08:42

I never gave DD1 a bottle myself, DH was the only one to do that. He did it so infrequently that by the time I went back to work when she was 10 months she wouldn't take a bottle. She had expressed milk in a cup.
DD2 I intend to do the same, DH will give some bottles, but hopefully more frequently so she doesn't start to refuse it. This time I'll be going back when she's 7 months so not sure a cup will be an option.

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CMOTDibbler · 30/03/2017 08:49

I never gave ds a bottle myself - he had them from dh or nursery, but if he was with me then it was always direct.

Before I went back to work, I'd hand express 50ml first thing in the morning direct into a bottle, and dh would give it to ds in the evening a few days a week to make sure he'd take it. It didn't replace a feed, but was just practice at having a bottle

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SeaLover · 30/03/2017 17:06

Perfect - thanks for all your helpful responses!

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Birdsgottaf1y · 30/03/2017 17:11

My DD found that my GD wouldn't take a bottle from her. My DDs breasts would leak heavily etc.

So the bottle was for when I had her.

Babies behave differently for others, than they do their Mums.

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